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Go Ahead, Give It Your All!

9/6/2015

This morning when I was working out I had an “AHA” moment, as you get to know me you will realize I have them often. I guess I have them because my spirit is open to receiving whatever it is God is willing to teach me. I realized while doing my workouts I really wasn’t giving it my all, instead of a full kick I would give a little kick, instead of doing the full routine I was taking the short cut. Who was I fooling other than myself? I had to sit down and ask myself who am I doing this for, am I doing it just to say “Yeah Chloe, today you completed a workout?”. Did I have other motives, was I truly doing it for me?

My answer to my own question was “I’m doing it for me”, so why was I cheating myself and wasting my own time. If I wasn’t giving it my all I might as well sit down, because I wasn’t going to see the results I was hoping for. To make a long story short I got back up started the DVD over and went in. Yes I was tired; yes I wanted to sit down, yes I wanted to make an excuse to stop by saying I needed a water break, but I didn’t and I started to sweat like never before, but the best part is the feeling you get after knowing you gave something your all. You feel like you’re on cloud nine. My reason for writing this blog is to let you know, whatever you do in life do it to the best of your ability by giving it your all and you will achieve the results you want, even if it’s just the feeling of “YES I ROCKED IT TODAY”.

Have a wonderful day and don’t forget to give your all “Blog with me”..

Chloe Womack

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No Need to Compete

9/6/2015

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There is no need to be in competition with no one but yourself.The only competing you should be doing is competing to be a better you today then you were yesterday. You should be competing to give each day your all, combined with challenging yourself on a daily basis. When we start to compete with others even in business we began to look outside of ourselves and try to copy gifts that were given to other people. You are unique for a reason and you must stay on the course that God put you on to accomplish the most out of this beautiful life. Remember this, God will always put people in our path to help enhance our gift and sometimes to show us how not to use it, but never get caught up in using your gift to compete or compare yourself and your growth to another, by doing so you open yourself up to doubting what was given to you in the first place or what make you UNIQUELY YOU... F.Y.I. When you start to love and understand your uniqueness you will quickly realize there's no need to compete, because you have no competitors!!!!

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My Story (He Heard My Cry)

9/6/2015

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"He heard my cry!" was my story 7 years ago. I had just kicked my husband out of 13 years for having an affair. I was diagnosed with Lupus, and was on the verge of loosing my job. I was really going through it, and was finally giving into defeat; at the time I didn't realize I was having a pity party for one. I just knew that I didn't deserve what life or God was handing me. I didn't deserve to be a single parent. I didn't deserve to have this disease that seem to be taking over my life, and I didn't deserve to loose my job that I gave my all too, or did I? What this life lesson has taught me was, I'm going to go through hardships in life. I'm going to go through hurt, and pain, but it's the way I handle/deal with the problems that will make or break me. I can either sit and dwell on all the hurt, and pain, or I could pick myself up, dust myself off, and continue to go on with life. What I decided to do was choose to believe that God has already taken care of the situation. I just had to get with the program. Through all my struggles, I keep the faith that God is working it out, by doing so i'm letting him know I trust him. So I dry off all the water from the rain, and start looking for the sunshine and the rainbow that I know awaits me. It's Okay to cry and go through a grieving period; how long you willing to stay there is what will make or break you.

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He Heard My Cry

9/6/2015

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She sat on the floor and cried Lord why me?! I'm just so tired of the pain, I'm tired of being alone, working long hours, being mom and dad.. Is this what life is all about?? My heart is just soooooooooo heavy and I feel so lost and alone.. All of a sudden there was a knock at the door.. Mommy are you in there, she wiped her tears, splash water on her face and open up the door and said, Hey sweetie do you need me? It's amazing how fast God can answer your prayers and I bet you didn't even realize he shut down your pity party for one just that fast. He was there the whole time. Remember during your deepest sorrow, he's still there... truestory

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How Do You Define A Friend

9/6/2015

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For some of us it’s time to get our GROWN WOMEN FRIENDSHIP on. We are no longer in High School and should have experienced enough in life to realize just because someone is willing to fight along with you, gossip and allow you to converse about all your problems 24/7 doesn't mean they're your real friend. I know a lot of you aren’t ready for this, so those that are will receive and take heed and those that aren’t will keep it moving. How do you define a friend? Most of us would say someone who is there whenever we need them, someone who you can rely on, someone who will always have your back and the list goes on and on with “YOU” always being the main focus. How do “I” know because I was once an “I” friend too.

   Some of us pick our friends the wrong way and for the wrong reasons. Sometimes we pick our friends because of our current situation. We pick people that are in the same place that we are mentally, psychically and spiritually, because we know they can relate to our drama or have time to deal with our foolishness, but the only person we’re hurting by doing this is ourselves. Even our friends can be a comfort zone for us. Sometimes we think the person that is always there to answer the phone and talk is the person that have our back, but that’s not always the case. I have asked a couple of my friends why didn’t you call me when you were going through certain issues and their answers were, you’re always busy or I knew what you were going to say, so being the person that I am (very inquisitive) I asked, so who did you call and why? Nine times out of ten they reached out to the person that could relate to their problems or was willing to go through the grieving process with them, so instead of a pity party for one they now had company.

     Don’t get me wrong, I’m not some cold hearted woman who don’t make time for her friends, but I’m not going to be your personal therapist either. No you can’t call me all the time after 9pm to talk about your drama, I have a beautiful family that I’m trying to nurture and during this time we are trying to wind down from our day and get ready for the next, yes things happen and calling occasionally is understandable. No I’m not going to get involved in your love life, when we have spoken about the same issues a million times. It’s not fair to my family or my spouse to hear me talking to you about your mate 24/7. No it’s not Okay for you to call me when I’m in the middle of working to shoot the breeze, we have to respect each other’s time. I always start out my conversation with “Hey, are you available to talk” and if the answer is “NO” you respect that persons answer and move on. Like I said in the beginning sometimes it not the one who answers the phone all the time that have your back. There’s an old saying “Misery loves company”. This was written to make you think “Why are certain friends in your life and what standards do you use when selecting friends".

    Some of you won’t get this blog until you move into the next phase of life. I was once that friend that answered her phone 24/7. I had meaningless conversations for hours even when I knew I had other things to do, but I was also miserable and sometimes it felt good to hear that I wasn’t alone. Thanks to God and growth I have grown a lot and realize my time is valuable and not to call my friends and bother them with my drama. It’s either I’m going to do something about it or not. I had to be the change I wanted to see or lead by example. So, I no longer think my friends have to have the ride or die mentally to be a true friend.

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Go Ahead, Give It Your All!

No Need to Compete

My Story (He Heard My Cry)

He Heard My Cry

How Do You Define A Friend

Chloe Womack

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