Today is the day I vow to be loyal to "ME"... Everyone isn't deserving of your loyalty; and never be afraid to walk away from those that are not. Sometimes we stay a little bit to long, do a little bit to much and continue to give to those that are only mentally and physically only able to take...
The only thing that kicks fear in the butt is action. I decided to use my 25 year old daughter for this post, because this is the exact kind of relationship we have. I was a teenage mom and was determined not to let society put me in their little statistic box; and in order to do that I had to be queen of the action network. According to society I wasn't going to marry her dad, which we were married for 14 years (currently divorced), My daughter wouldn't graduate from High School "Umm she has her Bachelors" and the last statistic was she would also be a teen mom "Nope, no children". So we don't let society dictate our fate.
Now, when my daughter calls me about a problem or an idea for business or life in general, she knows my first question is going to be "So, what are we going to do about it?". Action stomps away fear, doubt and worry. Anyone can come up with ideas it's the "Action" part that scares people into mediocrity and none of us were born to be "AVERAGE". Happy Wednesday!
When you wake up in the morning without a smile on your face and love and appreciation in your heart. You're allowing life to control your emotions and dictate the outcome of your mood and day. Why give the world so much power? Why allow your mind to hang onto things that hurt your heart and weigh on your spirit. Come on! You got this! You hold the pen. God gave you the paper for a reason. You dictate the next paragraph or chapter. Let's get to writing..
Self-Criticism is just the mind going on with old chatter. She how you have trained your mind to berate you and be resistant to change? Ignore those thoughts and get on with the important work at hand!
When you own up to your past, no one can hold it over your head. I am beautifully flawed and don't mind saying it, because my flaws and downfalls made me the woman I am today and I love her.
In order to be successful one must become an intentional learner, active learning is key. We must take responsibility of our lives and nurture our mind, body and spirit with whatever it needs to get where we need to go. Becoming intentional means setting aside time "no matter what". It means being observant. It means stepping out of your comfort zone or outside of the box. You simply have to become an intentional learner!
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Morning Lesson: Never assume anything. What's the true meaning of to ASSUME? It's accepting/taking on something without proof. You're assuming he/she was referring to you. You're assung he/she doesn't like you. Assumption will make a fool of you if you're not careful; and it's very time consuming. If it wasn't said directly to you than it's not for or about you. Don't lose focus on things that's not even pertaining to you, stay focused.
Love Always Chloe Womack
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As women we must learn to dance in the victory of another women's win.Not in her defeat. We must learn to smile when we see her doing her thing. We must learn to give her that praise that will keep her going and fighting the good fight for all of us. We must learn to say "that's beautiful" when she finds and celebrate love. The only way we're going to defeat a jealous or envious heart among us is to learn how to celebrate in another women's VICTORY. We must learn to give what we wish to receive.
Sometimes as adults we have to bring ourselves back to a child like state. The amazing thing about babies and little children is they fear nothing and they know how perfect they are. When children learn to talk, you don't hear them asking questions like "am I beautiful or do you love me". They are already full of love and if they're unhappy trust me you'll know about it. We were all once like that until we allowed adults to tell us differently. We took on all of their traits and forgot about how "AWESOME" we really are. Take time today to tell yourself how amazing and beautiful you are in your own skin. Try doing this every morning until you start to believe it.
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God has blessed me with way to much for me not to share what I know. He has supplied me with wisdom that some people never receive. When I wake up in the morning my thoughts are how can I help someone "GET IT". How can I help women understand that they can be God fearing, happy, established and successful. My passion lies within you. I want you to receive what I'm telling you. There's someone amazing inside of you. She knows who she is, she knows what she wants and she's ready to make her appearance.