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Transferring of Energy

9/17/2012

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Transferring of Energy

 

We are surrounded by hundreds of people on any given day and each person comes with their own set of problems, issues and beliefs. You never know what’s going on in a person's mind until you get to know them, speak to them or it began to show in their actions and sometimes you still don’t know. I was the queen of showing the world what I wanted them to see. I buried my truth deep down inside and covered it with makeup and presented the world with an amazing women. Only a few people knew my truth and those that knew only knew bits and pieces. No one wants to look dysfunctional in the eyes of others. Trust me it end up showing in others way. Think of an abscess or infection if it’s not taken care of or healed properly it will start to show or ooze out in episodes.

What a lot of people don’t know is when people begin to have sudden outburst and begin to blame, disrespect or point fingers it’s normally because of something deeper and trust me there’s always a root that need to be uplifted. Remember when I said I was once the queen of showing the world what I wanted them to see, well my cries for help were often in my outburst or my attitude and once I got it out of my system I was fine, for the time being, but there’s a reason for that. We have a habit of transferring our energy over to others. So what was once under my skin is now under yours, meaning the person who was at the end of your outburst, cry for help or whatever you choose to call it. You slapped them so hard with your energy that they don’t even know what happen to them and now their walking around with your stuff  that will eventually stir up  their own personal stuff and now they have a spirit of anger, sadness, defensiveness or depression and they don’t even know where it came from. I learned about transferring of energy early on when I was taking a psychology class and I became more aware of it when I was working with girls in a group home. I would come home so drained from their issues and trying to figure out how to solve them that I was becoming miserable and didn’t realize it until I was going through some of my old school notes on transferring energy.  

 I remember a couple of years ago I wrote a blog  called “Beware of the Mind Virus” (link listed below) in which I talked about protecting your mind from people. Well, transferring of energy is somewhat the same. Be careful of what you allow your spirit to take in. Don’t allow people to dump their issues on you continuously and if you’re in the business of helping people you must put a barrier up where you are the listener and not the receiver. You may hear the issues, but you don’t allow them to resonate in your soul. You have to learn to show empathy instead of sympathy while still remaining human and not cold or robotic. You must also learn not to take others peoples words and actions seriously by walking in your truth. Walking in your truth is knowing you had nothing to do with that person's actions so you don’t allow their energy to transfer over to you. You continue with your day, you don’t respond, become angry or defensive, you just continue to walk in your truth. Don’t become so use to drama that you think taking on someone else’s energy or issues is part of the resolving/healing process. 



Don't forget to checkout "Beware of the Mind Virus"..  http://yesiammysisterskeeper.weebly.com/1/post/2012/09/beware-of-the-mind-virus.html 


Chloe Womack
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God has blessed me way to much for me not to share what I know. He has supplied me with wisdom that some people never receive. When I wake up in the morning my thoughts are how can I help someone "GET IT".  How can I help women understand that they can be God fearing, happy, established and successful. My passion lies within you. I want you to receive what I'm telling you. There's someone amazing inside of you.  She knows who she is, she knows what she want and she's ready to make her appearance. My inner "Champion" was screaming at the top of her lungs to be released and when I let her loose she blew me away. I never knew I was so "CAPABLE", but God knew.  I walk by faith and I talk to God about any and everything, but I'm also smart enough to take action. My passion, goals and desire is to impact lives, not just planting seeds. I want to help you, help them grow and harvest.

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Melvinia Ford
9/17/2012 04:18:47 am

This is soooo awesome!! I love it!!! I had to learn this so I could function in my own ministry. I not only listened to the problems, but took them on as well. Mighty Word!! Blessings to You!!

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Shae
9/17/2012 04:26:01 am

I absolutely love this, it instantly spoke to me, I am in a relationship where this happens all the time, when he is done, he feels better and I feel bad. SMH. Thank you, I am printing this and reading it daily.

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Chloe
9/17/2012 04:31:51 am

You're Welcome Shae!!!

Chloe
9/17/2012 04:30:38 am

Thank You Melvinia!! It's very easy to take on other peoples problems when you're trying to help them.. Being aware of it is definitely the key.. Have an amazing day!!!

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lisa rutledge
9/17/2012 04:52:09 am

Chloe,
I love what you are doing here. I have a BS in Psychology and can relate from that point of view, and you are right on point. On the spiritual aspect.... It's LOVE that covers a multitude of sins. Once i understood in similar terms about the mind virus.... God started showing me that walking in Love was the key to this. Most negative energy if not all is rooted from fear. It's Love that casts fear out. Again, I love what you are doing and I look forward to more! You are on the right path and I know it is helping thousands of people.

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Chloe
9/17/2012 05:42:14 am

Thank You Lisa!!! You are so right, if we could operate in "love" on a daily basis this would be a better world..

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shae
9/17/2012 05:54:43 am

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Iesha Bryant
9/17/2012 06:29:02 am

Wow,is all I can say.....you leave me speechless every time,but I am learning & growing by every excellent Blog you post!

-Thanks so much Chloe...

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Chloe
9/17/2012 06:48:32 am

Thanks Iesha!!

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Andrea
9/17/2012 07:06:23 am

THANK YOU!

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Chloe
9/17/2012 09:10:05 am

You're Welcome Andrea!!

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Dawn
9/17/2012 02:02:57 pm

Hi Chloe! That was very moving. Something that myself and many should live by. Thank You!

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Lisa
9/17/2012 09:49:06 pm

Hi Chloe,
I just want to emphasis that LOVE is key to negative energy. Because Love itself is energy. There is no energy more powerful than love. We are understanding that there is a root to the negative energy and that root is FEAR. Jesus was able to heal and cast out demons because He was Love. and Love casts out all fear. That is the beginning of healing on any level... Compassion is the ability to look beyond the negative and see the fear and that allows Love to confront it, rather than judgement or anger or frustration... When that happens Love overcomes the negative energy. Why, because there is no energy more powerful than love. Just like there is Light diminishes darkness. there is a simple way to test this, the next time someone is angry or any other negative energy.... translate it within yourself as "that is rooted from fear" and see how it compels compassion and compassion allows love to operate and watch how it just diminishes the negative energy, just like turning a light on in a dark room diminishes the darkness and the Light allows things to be seen clearly. From the Love of Christ in Me.

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Chloe
9/18/2012 12:17:33 am

Love it Lisa!!! I have been studying the true meaning of love and how to operate in love and I've found out some pretty amazing stuff.. My goal this year was to read 50 books to really nurture my craft..

Madeline Olawumi
9/28/2012 05:47:27 am

I greatly enjoy reading your blogs, they are very helpful as I am learning to transform myself into a more positive person. You are doing a great job and thanks for doing it...

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