We are surrounded by hundreds of people on any given day and each person comes with their own set of problems, issues and beliefs. You never know what’s going on in a person's mind until you get to know them, speak to them or it began to show in their actions and sometimes you still don’t know. I was the queen of showing the world what I wanted them to see. I buried my truth deep down inside and covered it with makeup and presented the world with an amazing women. Only a few people knew my truth and those that knew only knew bits and pieces. No one wants to look dysfunctional in the eyes of others. Trust me it end up showing in others way. Think of an abscess or infection if it’s not taken care of or healed properly it will start to show or ooze out in episodes.
What a lot of people don’t know is when people begin to have sudden outburst and begin to blame, disrespect or point fingers it’s normally because of something deeper and trust me there’s always a root that need to be uplifted. Remember when I said I was once the queen of showing the world what I wanted them to see, well my cries for help were often in my outburst or my attitude and once I got it out of my system I was fine, for the time being, but there’s a reason for that. We have a habit of transferring our energy over to others. So what was once under my skin is now under yours, meaning the person who was at the end of your outburst, cry for help or whatever you choose to call it. You slapped them so hard with your energy that they don’t even know what happen to them and now their walking around with your stuff that will eventually stir up their own personal stuff and now they have a spirit of anger, sadness, defensiveness or depression and they don’t even know where it came from. I learned about transferring of energy early on when I was taking a psychology class and I became more aware of it when I was working with girls in a group home. I would come home so drained from their issues and trying to figure out how to solve them that I was becoming miserable and didn’t realize it until I was going through some of my old school notes on transferring energy.
I remember a couple of years ago I wrote a blog called “Beware of the Mind Virus” (link listed below) in which I talked about protecting your mind from people. Well, transferring of energy is somewhat the same. Be careful of what you allow your spirit to take in. Don’t allow people to dump their issues on you continuously and if you’re in the business of helping people you must put a barrier up where you are the listener and not the receiver. You may hear the issues, but you don’t allow them to resonate in your soul. You have to learn to show empathy instead of sympathy while still remaining human and not cold or robotic. You must also learn not to take others peoples words and actions seriously by walking in your truth. Walking in your truth is knowing you had nothing to do with that person's actions so you don’t allow their energy to transfer over to you. You continue with your day, you don’t respond, become angry or defensive, you just continue to walk in your truth. Don’t become so use to drama that you think taking on someone else’s energy or issues is part of the resolving/healing process.
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God has blessed me way to much for me not to share what I know. He has supplied me with wisdom that some people never receive. When I wake up in the morning my thoughts are how can I help someone "GET IT". How can I help women understand that they can be God fearing, happy, established and successful. My passion lies within you. I want you to receive what I'm telling you. There's someone amazing inside of you. She knows who she is, she knows what she want and she's ready to make her appearance. My inner "Champion" was screaming at the top of her lungs to be released and when I let her loose she blew me away. I never knew I was so "CAPABLE", but God knew. I walk by faith and I talk to God about any and everything, but I'm also smart enough to take action. My passion, goals and desire is to impact lives, not just planting seeds. I want to help you, help them grow and harvest.