I need someone with "MONEY", I need someone to "TAKE CARE" of me, I need someone to "GET ME" out of my situation and I "NEED" someone to "LOVE" me. No you don't! And there's no such thing as a "Knight in Shining Armour" who's going to sweep you off your feet and take care of your every need. Why would you want to give one person so much control over "YOU", when you can actually save/take care of yourself.
Sometimes we focus on the wrong things. How about using this time to focus on saving "YOURSELF" first. I personally think we put to much emphasis, thought and work into our relationship status instead of focusing on who we are as a person and what we have to offer or bring to the table. What I've come to realize, is you have to learn how to stand alone before you can stand together. I've watched women put so much emphasis on their relationships that when it fall apart they become angry and bitter. We've all seen it, especially in this day and time where you can promote any and everything on social media. I know I see it on a daily basis, at least one or two post directed to men in reference to women, giving their all and then being disappointed when the relationship takes a turn for the worse.
#1 It's Okay to be disappointed, but it's not Okay to be angry and bitter. Why would you be mad at someone for showing you their true colors, why would you be mad at someone for showing you they can't afford the price-tag that comes with being with you. No I'm not talking about a financial price-tag I'm talking about the price-tag of respect, love and trust.
#2 Love yourself enough to know the actions of others have nothing to do with you, but also love yourself enough to take inventory. When we fail a test, we automatically look for the right answers. RIGHT!! We'll the same goes for anything else in life. Take responsibility for allowing certain people and things in your life, then take responsibility for the role you played.
#3 It's your world GIRL!!! Yes, it's your world, so pick yourself up and seek out the positive energy that you need to keep focused.
#4 Focus on "YOU", now is the time to become the person you want to be with. Yes, it may sound strange, but try it. Date yourself, spoil yourself, honor yourself. Teach others how to treat you, by your actions not your words.
Chloe Womack
C.E.O of "Yes I Am My Sisters Keeper" and Chloe Womack Inc. "Life/Living Coach"
Sometimes we focus on the wrong things. How about using this time to focus on saving "YOURSELF" first. I personally think we put to much emphasis, thought and work into our relationship status instead of focusing on who we are as a person and what we have to offer or bring to the table. What I've come to realize, is you have to learn how to stand alone before you can stand together. I've watched women put so much emphasis on their relationships that when it fall apart they become angry and bitter. We've all seen it, especially in this day and time where you can promote any and everything on social media. I know I see it on a daily basis, at least one or two post directed to men in reference to women, giving their all and then being disappointed when the relationship takes a turn for the worse.
#1 It's Okay to be disappointed, but it's not Okay to be angry and bitter. Why would you be mad at someone for showing you their true colors, why would you be mad at someone for showing you they can't afford the price-tag that comes with being with you. No I'm not talking about a financial price-tag I'm talking about the price-tag of respect, love and trust.
#2 Love yourself enough to know the actions of others have nothing to do with you, but also love yourself enough to take inventory. When we fail a test, we automatically look for the right answers. RIGHT!! We'll the same goes for anything else in life. Take responsibility for allowing certain people and things in your life, then take responsibility for the role you played.
#3 It's your world GIRL!!! Yes, it's your world, so pick yourself up and seek out the positive energy that you need to keep focused.
#4 Focus on "YOU", now is the time to become the person you want to be with. Yes, it may sound strange, but try it. Date yourself, spoil yourself, honor yourself. Teach others how to treat you, by your actions not your words.
Chloe Womack
C.E.O of "Yes I Am My Sisters Keeper" and Chloe Womack Inc. "Life/Living Coach"
