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Sticks And Stones May Break My Bones, But Words That Don't Pertain To Me Have No Meaning!!!!

11/13/2012

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Re-post from my first Blog!!!!!


Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me! I remember hearing those words as a young girl and saying, are you kidding me. Words hurt and some words hurt so bad that you feel like you just got the wind knocked out of you. But it wasn't until recently that I learned that words have NO POWER. We give them power by breathing life into them. How you ask, let me explain.

I remember getting into arguments with my brother when I was younger because he called me a name. My mom would come busting in our room asking what's going on and I would say something silly like, Corey called me a name and her question to me was, are you the name he called you and I would sit there with the stupid face and say “NO” and her response to me would be, so why did you respond or why does it bother you. Well you know what Keeper's. I gave his words life and even as an adult I use to do the same thing. Someone would say something about me and what would I do “RESPOND”. There I go giving words life again.

But there is an even more damaging side to giving words life and it's called believing them. There are millions of wounded people walking around, because they choose to give other peoples words life and they do this by #1. breathing life into them by acknowledging their words and #2. holding onto them so long that they began to believe them. It's extremely hard to defeat something you believe in or something you have been carrying around for so long. So I ask you to please stop giving life to words that you know are used to hurt you.. If the words don't pertain to you, leave them alone.



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Chloe Womack

Author, Motivational Speaker and Life/Living Coach


P.S. I know my brother read all my blogs so I must admit when we were younger I called him a couple of names too lol... Love YOU





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God has blessed me way to much for me not to share what I know. He has supplied me with wisdom that some people never receive. When I wake up in the morning my thoughts are how can I help someone "GET IT".  How can I help women understand that they can be God fearing, happy, established and successful. My passion lies within you. I want you to receive what I'm telling you. There's someone amazing inside of you.  She knows who she is, she knows what she want and she's ready to make her appearance. My inner "Champion" was screaming at the top of her lungs to be released and when I let her loose she blew me away. I never knew I was so "CAPABLE", but God knew.  I walk by faith and I talk to God about any and everything, but I'm also smart enough to take action. My passion, goals and desire is to impact lives, not just planting seeds. I want to help you, help them grow and harvest



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You May Not Understand Now Why God Allowed Your Pain, But You Will One Day! 

10/27/2012

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The most vulnerable time for me in my life was when “I Do” turned into “I Don’t”. I felt as if my skin was stripped away from my body and every noise, word, opinion, smile, frown or thought was like someone touching my open flesh and the best way to describe that felling is to simply say “It Hurts”.  That was my lowest point in life and it wasn't solely, because of the marriage “It was about ME”. Oh how I want to blame him right now, because he did hurt me, but to be honest it wasn't even about him. I was giving a person/human being way to much credit and that’s what we do when we're lost and in need of inner healing. We blame others for all our pain, even though sometimes they do deserve it, but that’s the coward’s way out and that’s the way of holding onto a lot of hurt and pain. Taking your responsibility for the situation is like a way of forgiveness. It eliminates what I call the “Blame, Shame and Anger Game".

Have you ever heard of the saying the straw that broke the camel’s back, well my divorce was that straw and it broke me, but it broke me, so I had no other choice, but to rebuild me. What I thought was God scolding me, was actually God loving me more than I loved myself. He was looking down at me and saying look at my daughter, she is “oh so broken”, she doesn't know if she should love or hate, she is so confused, using everyday gestures to fuel what she’s missing like a hug, touch, embrace and allowing them to medicate her brokenness. She has lost herself in her role and can’t seem to find her way out. Why won't she call on me, so I can help her?  She’s so stubborn.  So,here I go. This is going to hurt me more than it will hurt you. Do you remember those words when you were children; those are the words your parents would say right before the punishment or as my brother call it “The Beat Down” and just like that he opened my eyes and my world came crumbling down.

So it was at this point that I thought he left me, because I was faced with “I Do” turning into “I Don’t”. I was going through a living hell, because he was showing me everything I couldn't see or refuse to see for years, so there was times he would give me a dose of reality and I would feel like someone was touching my raw skin and then the pain would go away and I would feel OK. I get it now. During the times he would open my eyes he would let me experience the pain, so I wouldn't forget what it felt like; then he would hold me in his arms and whisper in my ear, words that would comfort my soul. Like you’re strong, you’re going to get through this, you have to figure out who you are, but you must call on me “Chloe”. I need you to call on me. One morning I woke up and those of you that read my book know what comes next. I checked on my children looked in the mirror and couldn't even stand or believe that the reflection looking back was me and I fell to the floor and cried “Lord why, help me, I need you, I need you Lord” and to make a long story short this was the day I called confronting me, but now I realize it was actually the day “God Confronted Me and the healing begin”, because I called on him and made him first and he rewarded me with inner peace. 



Chloe Womack


The Lord created me in a marvelous way.

He gave me a smile to share with others..
He gifted me with a cheerful spirit…
He allowed me to be made whole through the Sacrifice of His Son.
and then He walked with me in a sad place and brought me out. 


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You Gotta Stay Prayed UP!!

10/18/2012

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(Re-post from original blog)



You Gotta Stay Prayed Up!!! If you don't know, let me be the first to tell you. Once you decide to live your life according to the "Authentic YOU", you will often be in the presence of "VAMPIRES".. People that are ready to suck your dreams, joy and peace right out of you. It's unfortunate, some "Vamps" don't know what they do or who they are, but isn't that always the case. We really don't realize how bad things are until we get out of the situation. So you have to stay prayed up. God has given me the ability to see a "VAMP" a mile away and sorry I just don't have nothing to give you.

Some of them truly don't mean any harm, they just don't believe in themselves, so when you come along talking your "BIG TALK" about dreams, goals and etc they don't understand you and what do most people do when they don't understand something, instead of trying to learn more about it, they will find a way to suck the life right out of it and if you're not strong enough, they'll have you thinking the same way and if you hang around people with this characteristic it's easy to adopt their habits.

So for starters be very careful of who you tell your dreams too. Secondly, STAY PRAYED UP, because sometimes you will not realize you are in the presence of a "Vamp" until they have sucked you dry.. Thirdly, Stay focused and stand strong in who you are and the person that you're becoming.



Chloe Womack
Author, Speaker, Transformation/Living Coach



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Monday Morning Prayer

10/14/2012

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A Prayer of Faith


Lord I come to you asking you to increase my sisters "Faith".  Lord show them this Monday morning, the true meaning of what it is to have faith. Faith without fear Lord, faith without worry, faith without question. Lord I ask you to show them a glimpse of what you're capable of doing if they exhibit true faith. Show them your clarity, wisdom, knowledge and grace. Give them a dose of your vision for their life Lord, blow them away. For they don't seem to grasp how powerful you truly are Lord. Shower your love all over them, show them what being faithful will get them. Restore dreams Lord, re-ignite passions and show them just how powerful, loving and eager you are to make what they think is impossible "Possible". You are a dream maker, dream creator and dream ex-changer,  exchanging dreams for reality and lifting people higher than they ever imagined. Lord show them what you're capable of. They need you, Lord I need you, we need you.  In your name I pray.


Amen

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Yes, Success Leaves Clues!!!!

10/3/2012

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Every Motivational Speaker is familiar with the famous Tony Robbins quote "Success Leaves Clues", but it wasn't until today that I realized the true meaning of this brilliant quote. Have you ever sat down and thought to yourself  "My, I have been blessed to know some amazing people".  But what qualities  did these people have for you to think they were so amazing? This morning I was thinking about the  the bosses I've had the pleasure to work with; and to be honest I was thinking of two in particular. I wasn't just thinking of them to be thinking of them. I was thinking of their amazing work ethic, their thought process and how both of these amazing people were the kings of the castle, meaning they ran the company, but you would never have known from the way they carried themselves.


So my question to you is:
  1. WHO'S SUCCESS CLUES ARE YOU STUDYING AND WHY?
  2. AND IF YOUR NOT, DON'T YOU THINK YOU SHOULD?



I realized several people have crossed my path and blessed me with clues or should I say "GEMS". I began to become a student of "What Works".  Why does one company make millions and the other company selling the same product dwindles. Why does everyone hate one manager and love the other. Study, study, study! Yes, people success leaves clues. You don't study to duplicate you study to see what works and what don't. For three years I watched my Boss enter the office and greet everyone he came across by their first name.  I was impressed because we had well over a thousand employees, but I also realized by doing this act he made people feel special, like they were part of the team. Another "Gem" he passed on was he never said "MY", we never heard him say "My Company", he always said "Our Company". He always said we are a team and each person shares equal responsibility in keeping this company afloat. These are the clues that were left behind for me and of course there are a host of others, but you get the point.

It pays to watch and study so you won't make the same costly mistakes that others made. Trust me when I tell you some of the trials you will face have already been figured out by another. So get out there and learn, study and watch those that are already in the space you wish to be.


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Chloe Womack
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God has blessed me way to much for me not to share what I know. He has supplied me with wisdom that some people never receive. When I wake up in the morning my thoughts are how can I help someone "GET IT".  How can I help women understand that they can be God fearing, happy, established and successful. My passion lies within you. I want you to receive what I'm telling you. There's someone amazing inside of you.  She knows who she is, she knows what she want and she's ready to make her appearance. My inner "Champion" was screaming at the top of her lungs to be released and when I let her loose she blew me away. I never knew I was so "CAPABLE", but God knew.  I walk by faith and I talk to God about any and everything, but I'm also smart enough to take action. My passion, goals and desire is to impact lives, not just planting seeds. I want to help you, help them grow and harvest


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