Re-post from my first Blog!!!!!


Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me! I remember hearing those words as a young girl and saying, are you kidding me. Words hurt and some words hurt so bad that you feel like you just got the wind knocked out of you. But it wasn't until recently that I learned that words have NO POWER. We give them power by breathing life into them. How you ask, let me explain.

I remember getting into arguments with my brother when I was younger because he called me a name. My mom would come busting in our room asking what's going on and I would say something silly like, Corey called me a name and her question to me was, are you the name he called you and I would sit there with the stupid face and say “NO” and her response to me would be, so why did you respond or why does it bother you. Well you know what Keeper's. I gave his words life and even as an adult I use to do the same thing. Someone would say something about me and what would I do “RESPOND”. There I go giving words life again.

But there is an even more damaging side to giving words life and it's called believing them. There are millions of wounded people walking around, because they choose to give other peoples words life and they do this by #1. breathing life into them by acknowledging their words and #2. holding onto them so long that they began to believe them. It's extremely hard to defeat something you believe in or something you have been carrying around for so long. So I ask you to please stop giving life to words that you know are used to hurt you.. If the words don't pertain to you, leave them alone.


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Chloe Womack
Author, Motivational Speaker and Life/Living Coach


P.S. I know my brother read all my blogs so I must admit when we were younger I called him a couple of names too lol... Love YOU




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God has blessed me way to much for me not to share what I know. He has supplied me with wisdom that some people never receive. When I wake up in the morning my thoughts are how can I help someone "GET IT".  How can I help women understand that they can be God fearing, happy, established and successful. My passion lies within you. I want you to receive what I'm telling you. There's someone amazing inside of you.  She knows who she is, she knows what she want and she's ready to make her appearance. My inner "Champion" was screaming at the top of her lungs to be released and when I let her loose she blew me away. I never knew I was so "CAPABLE", but God knew.  I walk by faith and I talk to God about any and everything, but I'm also smart enough to take action. My passion, goals and desire is to impact lives, not just planting seeds. I want to help you, help them grow and harvest

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You Gotta Stay Prayed Up!!! If you don't know, let me be the first to tell you. Once you decide to live your life according to the "Authentic YOU", you will often be in the presence of "VAMPIRES".. People that are ready to suck your dreams, joy and peace right out of you. It's unfortunate, some "Vamps" don't know what they do or who they are, but isn't that always the case. We really don't realize how bad things are until we get out of the situation. So you have to stay prayed up. God has given me the ability to see a "VAMP" a mile away and sorry I just don't have nothing to give you.

Some of them truly don't mean any harm, they just don't believe in themselves, so when you come along talking your "BIG TALK" about dreams, goals and etc they don't understand you and what do most people do when they don't understand something, instead of trying to learn more about it, they will find a way to suck the life right out of it and if you're not strong enough, they'll have you thinking the same way and if you hang around people with this characteristic it's easy to adopt their habits.

So for starters be very careful of who you tell your dreams too. Secondly, STAY PRAYED UP, because sometimes you will not realize you are in the presence of a "Vamp" until they have sucked you dry.. Thirdly, Stay focused and stand strong in who you are and the person that you're becoming.


Chloe Womack
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Every Motivational Speaker is familiar with the famous Tony Robbins quote "Success Leaves Clues", but it wasn't until today that I realized the true meaning of this brilliant quote. Have you ever sat down and thought to yourself  "My, I have been blessed to know some amazing people".  But what qualities  did these people have for you to think they were so amazing? This morning I was thinking about the  the bosses I've had the pleasure to work with; and to be honest I was thinking of two in particular. I wasn't just thinking of them to be thinking of them. I was thinking of their amazing work ethic, their thought process and how both of these amazing people were the kings of the castle, meaning they ran the company, but you would never have known from the way they carried themselves.


So my question to you is:

1. WHO'S SUCCESS CLUES ARE YOU STUDYING AND WHY?
   
2. AND IF YOUR NOT, DON'T YOU THINK YOU SHOULD?

I realized several people have crossed my path and blessed me with clues or should I say "GEMS". I began to become a student of "What Works".  Why does one company make millions and the other company selling the same product dwindles. Why does everyone hate one manager and love the other. Study, study, study! Yes, people success leaves clues. You don't study to duplicate you study to see what works and what don't. For three years I watched my Boss enter the office and greet everyone he came across by their first name.  I was impressed because we had well over a thousand employees, but I also realized by doing this act he made people feel special, like they were part of the team. Another "Gem" he passed on was he never said "MY", we never heard him say "My Company", he always said "Our Company". He always said we are a team and each person shares equal responsibility in keeping this company afloat. These are the clues that were left behind for me and of course there are a host of others, but you get the point.

It pays to watch and study so you won't make the same costly mistakes that others made. Trust me when I tell you some of the trials you will face have already been figured out by another. So get out there and learn, study and watch those that are already in the space you wish to be.


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Chloe Womack
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God has blessed me way to much for me not to share what I know. He has supplied me with wisdom that some people never receive. When I wake up in the morning my thoughts are how can I help someone "GET IT".  How can I help women understand that they can be God fearing, happy, established and successful. My passion lies within you. I want you to receive what I'm telling you. There's someone amazing inside of you.  She knows who she is, she knows what she want and she's ready to make her appearance. My inner "Champion" was screaming at the top of her lungs to be released and when I let her loose she blew me away. I never knew I was so "CAPABLE", but God knew.  I walk by faith and I talk to God about any and everything, but I'm also smart enough to take action. My passion, goals and desire is to impact lives, not just planting seeds. I want to help you, help them grow and harvest

Transferring of Energy

 

We are surrounded by hundreds of people on any given day and each person comes with their own set of problems, issues and beliefs. You never know what’s going on in a person's mind until you get to know them, speak to them or it began to show in their actions and sometimes you still don’t know. I was the queen of showing the world what I wanted them to see. I buried my truth deep down inside and covered it with makeup and presented the world with an amazing women. Only a few people knew my truth and those that knew only knew bits and pieces. No one wants to look dysfunctional in the eyes of others. Trust me it end up showing in others way. Think of an abscess or infection if it’s not taken care of or healed properly it will start to show or ooze out in episodes.

What a lot of people don’t know is when people begin to have sudden outburst and begin to blame, disrespect or point fingers it’s normally because of something deeper and trust me there’s always a root that need to be uplifted. Remember when I said I was once the queen of showing the world what I wanted them to see, well my cries for help were often in my outburst or my attitude and once I got it out of my system I was fine, for the time being, but there’s a reason for that. We have a habit of transferring our energy over to others. So what was once under my skin is now under yours, meaning the person who was at the end of your outburst, cry for help or whatever you choose to call it. You slapped them so hard with your energy that they don’t even know what happen to them and now their walking around with your stuff  that will eventually stir up  their own personal stuff and now they have a spirit of anger, sadness, defensiveness or depression and they don’t even know where it came from. I learned about transferring of energy early on when I was taking a psychology class and I became more aware of it when I was working with girls in a group home. I would come home so drained from their issues and trying to figure out how to solve them that I was becoming miserable and didn’t realize it until I was going through some of my old school notes on transferring energy.  

 I remember a couple of years ago I wrote a blog  called “Beware of the Mind Virus” (link listed below) in which I talked about protecting your mind from people. Well, transferring of energy is somewhat the same. Be careful of what you allow your spirit to take in. Don’t allow people to dump their issues on you continuously and if you’re in the business of helping people you must put a barrier up where you are the listener and not the receiver. You may hear the issues, but you don’t allow them to resonate in your soul. You have to learn to show empathy instead of sympathy while still remaining human and not cold or robotic. You must also learn not to take others peoples words and actions seriously by walking in your truth. Walking in your truth is knowing you had nothing to do with that person's actions so you don’t allow their energy to transfer over to you. You continue with your day, you don’t respond, become angry or defensive, you just continue to walk in your truth. Don’t become so use to drama that you think taking on someone else’s energy or issues is part of the resolving/healing process. 


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Chloe Womack
Transformation/Living Coach




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God has blessed me way to much for me not to share what I know. He has supplied me with wisdom that some people never receive. When I wake up in the morning my thoughts are how can I help someone "GET IT".  How can I help women understand that they can be God fearing, happy, established and successful. My passion lies within you. I want you to receive what I'm telling you. There's someone amazing inside of you.  She knows who she is, she knows what she want and she's ready to make her appearance. My inner "Champion" was screaming at the top of her lungs to be released and when I let her loose she blew me away. I never knew I was so "CAPABLE", but God knew.  I walk by faith and I talk to God about any and everything, but I'm also smart enough to take action. My passion, goals and desire is to impact lives, not just planting seeds. I want to help you, help them grow and harvest.