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Some Diamonds Shine More Than Others, Because They're Polished. Not Because They're Better.

4/29/2015

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I'm definitely not a fan of "Reality Shows", but one thing I've observed after watching and listening to people on social media talk about them is "people are starting to learn that celebrities are human just like everyone else". Some of them are hard to get along with, arrogant, needy, delusional, lacking self love and the list goes on and on. That's why so many people enjoy watching them (some not all), because people love to see people doing worse then they are. They bask in the glory of other people's downfalls and hardships, but we'll talk about that later, because I love me some "Empire" (not a reality show, but full of drama). 

My last statement shows that I'm human, just like everyone else and may turn some people off, but it's okay, because I'm being true to myself. We have to learn to stop putting people on pedestals. We all have problems, we all have issues that need to be addressed. I tell my mentee's and  coaching students all the time to simply take what they need from my teachings and whatever they don't like or agree with to simply discard. Don't just accept something if you don't agree with it. Challenge people, be selective with what you allow your brain to ingest and stop putting so much of your heart and soul into people's exterior. I will never claim to be perfect and I'm continually learning and that's what life is about. So don't invest to much time and energy in idolizing those that shine or look so well put together, because they're human. Some of us have this polished thing down to a science. Who goes to a photo shoot looking like what they been through. Not I, If I'm going to a photo shoot, I'm going to look beat to the God's (beautiful) and slayed from head to toe. If I'm giving a speech I'm not going to engulf the audience with my trials, but how I got over them. So when people give you a dose of their everyday attitude or reality, don't be disappointed. Most people never claim to be perfect, we just assume they are, because they're always shining like a diamond when the doors open and the lights are flashing.


Chloe Womack


Live, laugh and love

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Speaking Life

4/8/2015

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Ladies and Gents, it's extremely important to speak "Life" into yourself.  I remember when I first started on this journey and one of my beautiful sister friends started telling me how every morning she wakes up and before she jumps out of bed she starts to speak life into her body, preparing her for the day. She in return speaks life into her children as she wakes them up and I automatically began to smile, because I  thought it was so cool. This was one of the moments I talked about in my book, when you start to seek knowledge of self and step outside of the proverbial box, God will put some pretty amazing people in your path. 
   What a lot of African American women aren't aware of is knowledge of where they come from and their ancestors. Our ancestors were Queens of speaking life into their families, tribes and communities. Women are natural nurtures.Women of all RACES. I have watched my share of slavery movies and I must say the things that sticks out the most to me is the spirit of the people. No matter what was going on. We  were continuously speaking life into ourselves and into our people. Oh you thought that was just good ole slave mentally or mumbo jumbo. No, they were giving themselves and others a word or words to help get them through the day. They were already in hell, so they were singing and speaking their way to heaven and it worked. 
    Every morning when I rise. I first and foremost give God thanks for waking me up and for every single thing I have in my life "Big and small". I then follow up with prayer and meditation and as I start my day I speak "Life" into myself and my son and then those in my mentoring group and facebook. I not only speak life, I listen for life to be spoken into me too. I read, I listen to audio books and videos. I control my day by my thoughts and in return the universe gives me sunshine even when the storms are rolling.


Learn to speak life!


Love Always Chloe Womack


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Let Me Give You A Dose of What I Know

4/3/2015

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I know that life is like writing a new book every second.  Every second that pass is a second that we will never get back, the time that it takes me to write this blog will never be given to me again. So life is basically a series of making the right choices in every second of your life, enjoying each second and acknowledging within a blink of an eye, that part of your life before the blink is now considered your past.

Now that we got that out of the way, i'll give you a second dose of what I know. I know that with each chapter we have the ability to create whatever we want. We can write a bunch of drama, a bunch of hardships, depression, motivation, wisdom, winning, hustling or whatever we choose, but the choice is up to us. It's not about what's going on around you. it's about what you choose to focus on and allow to control you. We have to learn that even when we're going through hell, we have to mentally keep our mind focused on heaven. How do you do this? Simply change your focus. Pray your way through it, not by saying lord take it away, but "Guide me, strengthen me, strengthen my sight and repeating I can do all things through you who strengthens me (my absolute favorite words I utter every morning). Walk in the direction of your dreams and goals. 

And last but not least, I know that when it comes to my dreams goals and life in general there is a "No Judgement Zone". Of course people are going to judge and we can't stop them from doing it and nor should we try. Simply don't acknowledge it. Most people will sit in misery, poverty and anguish simply because of fear of failing and caring what others will say. Life simply accepts us at our own value, meaning we set our value. We're responsible for what we choose to acknowledge. You can either sit and acknowledge those chuckling and laughing or those that tell you to get up and let's try this again. 

Life can actually be pretty simple it's the way we handle or relate to the simple things that determine if life will become complex or not.   


Love Always Chloe Womack


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    Chloe Womack is the name, and I'm living my life like it's GOLDEN. Too bad I can't sing! God has blessed me with a host of other talents to make up for it. I'm an Author, Life Coach, Motivational Speaker, and Radio Host. So why did I decide to write a Blog? Because there are so many other parts of Chloe that I would like to share. Sometimes I just want to take off the work clothes, and makeup and just be me. So here it is, WELCOME TO MY WORLD!

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